Divorce mediation is a guided conversation where you and your spouse work together—with the help of a neutral mediator—to create a divorce agreement that works for both of you. Unlike litigation, which can be adversarial and expensive, mediation is a collaborative process designed to reduce conflict, save time, and give you more control over the outcome. Sessions focus on key issues like finances, parenting, and property division, with the goal of reaching a fair and workable agreement.

Nicholas can mediate a couple anywhere in the country, but mainly services New York State. Although a resident of the Hudson Valley, Nicholas can work with couples from all parts of New York State including New York City, Albany, Rochester, and beyond.

Between 4 and 10 weeks to submit the paperwork to the courts depending on the county. It may be 5 to 25 weeks for final Judgement of Divorce documents to arrive in the mail.

Yes, mediation is strictly confidential. Discussions during mediation can never be disclosed outside of mediation, nor can Nicholas, or any of his notations be subpoenaed in any future litigations.

Between $5,000 and $10,000. Nicholas will approximate expected costs after meeting the spouses.

Mediation is typically far more affordable than litigation! Costs vary depending on the complexity of your case and the number of sessions needed, but it is less expensive than hiring attorneys and going to court. Plus, because mediation is more efficient, it can save you money in the long run by reducing conflict and preventing lengthy legal battles.

The agreements made in mediation are not automatically legally binding, but they can be formalized into a Separation Agreement or Divorce Settlement Agreement, which can then be submitted to the court. Once approved by a judge, the agreement becomes legally enforceable, just like any other court order.

Either, depending on the couple. Some couples prefer to have virtual meetings, while others value meeting with Nicholas in person. Nicholas is flexible and is able to meet the needs of the couple based on their preference.

Mediation is a great option for most couples who want to avoid the stress and expense of court. It works best when both parties are willing to communicate and compromise, even if emotions are running high. If there is a major power imbalance or serious concerns about fairness, a skilled mediator can help ensure both voices are heard. However, if one party refuses to engage in good faith, mediation may not be the best fit.

Mediation requires both parties to participate voluntarily. If your spouse is hesitant, I can help explain the benefits of mediation in a way that addresses their concerns. However, if they refuse to engage or consistently derail the process, you may need to consider other options, such as attorney negotiation or court proceedings.

If mediation doesn’t result in a full agreement, you still have options. Many couples reach a partial agreement in mediation and resolve any remaining issues through attorneys or court. Even if mediation doesn’t solve everything, it can still save time and money by narrowing down the issues in dispute.

Yes! Mediation is a great way to create a customized parenting plan that works for your family, rather than leaving those decisions up to a judge. It also allows you to discuss financial support in a way that considers both parties’ needs and the well-being of your children.

Absolutely! While attorneys don’t usually participate in the actual mediation sessions, many people choose to consult a lawyer before or after mediation to review the final agreement. This can provide extra peace of mind while keeping the process collaborative and cost-effective.

During mediation, you and your spouse will work together to fairly divide your assets and debts. We’ll discuss financial needs, priorities, and creative solutions to ensure a balanced outcome. Unlike court, where a judge makes the decision, mediation gives you control over the process and allows for flexibility.

Divorce is emotional, and that’s completely normal. My role as a mediator is to create a calm, supportive space where both of you feel heard. If tensions rise, I’ll help guide the conversation in a productive direction so that emotions don’t derail progress.

In cases involving domestic violence or coercion, mediation may not be appropriate unless proper safeguards are in place. If you have concerns about safety or fairness, let’s discuss them privately so we can determine the best approach for your situation. Your well-being is the top priority.

Once an agreement is reached, we’ll put everything in writing in a Separation Agreement or Divorce Settlement Agreement. This document can then be submitted to the court to make it official. Once approved by a judge, you’re legally divorced!